The Legacies We Leave: Building a Safer, More Peaceful World

When I think about the legacy I hope to leave, my heart is drawn to the idea of creating a safer, more peaceful world. I’ve always wanted to make a difference, not just in my community, but on a larger scale. It’s something that has been deeply rooted in my heart since I became a mother.

When my son Henry was younger, he was obsessed with Paw Patrol—a show about pups that go on rescue missions, always there to help keep their community safe. I remember watching him light up as the characters worked together to solve problems and protect others. And in those moments, I realized that I wanted to be my son’s real-life “Paw Patrol” hero. It wasn’t just about being there for him; it was about showing him that there’s strength in service and that anyone, regardless of gender or background, can make a meaningful impact.

As a female in the male-dominated world of first responders, I hope to inspire my daughter, Alice, to see that there are no limits to what she can accomplish. I want her to grow up knowing that the world is full of possibilities, and that she can break down any barriers she encounters on her own path.

I’ve always felt a calling to give back to the field that has saved my life countless times. My work as an EMT and firefighter isn’t just about responding to emergencies—it’s about serving others during their darkest moments. Whether I’m helping a patient in crisis or supporting someone in the recovery community, I want my actions to make a difference.

The tragedy of 9/11 was a pivotal moment for me as a young child, one that introduced my passion for community service and the role of emergency responders. In the aftermath of those attacks, I watched in awe as our nation came together—across all levels, classes, and cultures—in a show of unity and compassion. That moment solidified my belief in the power of community and service.

Mister Rogers is famously quoted, saying the following, “When I was a boy and I would see scary things in the news, my mother would say to me, “Look for the helpers. You will always find people who are helping.”

Before joining the first responder community, I studied policy in college with a focus on global issues. But I soon became disillusioned by the political divisions I witnessed when I worked in Washington, D.C. I wanted to be part of something that united people, that focused on service above all else. I realized that the work I do on the ground, directly helping people, is where real change happens. Each word I say to a patient in crisis could help them heal, process their emotions, or simply hold on for another moment. And every step I take in the recovery community could encourage someone to stay sober, to keep fighting for their own life.

Starting this blog is another step in my journey. My hope is to create a space for open-mindedness and vulnerability, where we can talk about the challenges we face as healthcare professionals and first responders. I want to inspire others to reach out when they’re struggling, to be brave enough to ask for help, and to build a community that supports one another through our trauma and challenges.

Our 911 system is under more pressure than ever before. Personnel are stretched thin, burnout is a constant threat, and mental health services for first responders are often underfunded or inadequate. But the more we advocate for better support systems, the stronger our community becomes. By nurturing the newer generation of first responders, we create a safer environment not just for ourselves, but for the families and communities we serve. This is the legacy I want to leave: a world where future generations grow up in a safer, more compassionate environment, and a community where we support one another—every single day.